Wednesday, May 7, 2025
Weekly Short Stories: 1999 Science Fiction, Part 13
Tuesday, May 6, 2025
Discussing a Recent, Worthy Rob Dial Podcast Episode
This article isn't really for you folks out there in the worldwide web for your enlightenment, but if you get something from it then that's okay, too. No, I just wanted to have a ready source at my own hands for the following material I picked up from a recent Rob Dial Mindset Mentor podcast. He put it out last Friday, and the title was "7 Mindset Habits That Changed My Life". Here they are:
Monday, May 5, 2025
Excessive Smiling: An American Pecularity
Back when I was twelve and in the seventh grade in junior high school, I had an assigned afternoon slot on my schedule for math study lab, which I shared with a small number of classmates. One of these, Randy, was a bit of a smart-ass snobby extrovert who would fit into the general depiction of an "alpha male". He was a stout believer in grinning, and seemed to have a problem about me not sharing his outlook, calling me "Smiley" in sarcasm. The idea was to make me feel bad and inferior because I wasn't constantly beaming like him (and other students): I just shook it off with the best of humor that I could muster. In truth, though, it's this insistence in American culture for people to always be smiling with their teeth on grand display that the rest of the world sees as peculiar and worth criticizing. Most folks, it turns out, are like me in that they are much more hesitant to smile, using that expression more in alignment with actual feelings and tending to be more close-mouthed with it. Here, though, it's seen as a sign of social confidence and strength and emphasized much more. I recently saw a YouTube posting in Russian where the host delved into this curious American phenomenon: it was a revelation to me. So all these years I was the normal dude...should have known. I know when I do those weekly Depot Parkruns, there's always a photographer present who gets shots of the participants during the event and then posts them within a day or two on Facebook. Most everyone is grinning from ear to ear at the camera while I usually appear as deep in a frown even though I'm feeling quite happy...that's just me, and I'm guessing that's how the larger part of humanity does it as well...
Sunday, May 4, 2025
Scheffler Wins First '25 Golf Tournament with Outstanding Score
It looks as if professional golfer Scottie Scheffler is back on track with his game, after having to recover from a hand injury late last year following a spectacular season that saw him win several tournaments and even the Olympic gold medal. He shot a mind-numbing 31 under par in the CJ Cup Byron Nelson Classic, held in McKinney, Texas, a few miles from Scheffler's home town of Dallas, winning by eight strokes. I can see from watching some of the action there this week that weather plays an enormous role in how the golfers play...apparently those treacherous winds I've witnessed in previous tournaments were much tamer with this one. Scheffler seemed to have his game together in all of its aspects...good for him! Of course, other than fellow Texan Jordan Spieth and a handful of other notables, there was a general lack of big names entered in this tournament...I wonder how Rory McIlroy or Justin Thomas would have done here. Well, I guess it's on to the next week, wherever they happen to be playing...
Saturday, May 3, 2025
Watched Today's Kentucky Derby, Hype and All
Ran This Morning's Depot Parkrun 5K in Gainesville
Friday, May 2, 2025
Language Acquisition Through Conversation: I'm Working On It
Thursday, May 1, 2025
My April 2025 Running and Walking Report
Wednesday, April 30, 2025
Weekly Short Stories: 1999 Science Fiction, Part 12
Tuesday, April 29, 2025
Finally Went Down to the Friends of Library Book Sale for April
Monday, April 28, 2025
My Top Favorite Songs In April 2025
Sunday, April 27, 2025
Packaged Evening News Like Box Lunches
Saturday, April 26, 2025
Skipped Run This Morning, Attended Church Function
Friday, April 25, 2025
Watched the Movie Conclave Tonight
Since Melissa and I are Amazon Prime subscribers, we had the opportunity to watch the suddenly-timely movie Conclave on their channel. I have to admit to being a bit resistant to sitting there through this fictional account of the selection of a new Bishop of Rome, i.e. the Pope, after the death of the incumbent pontiff. But I thought, why not, especially after reading up on it that it received high critical reviews and starred one of my favorite current actors, Ralph Fiennes. Fiennes plays Cardinal Lawrence, tasked as the manager of the Conclave. The College of Cardinals, all with their red beanies, are shut off in a well-staffed and well-supplied building in the Vatican, and have to take repeated ballots to finally come up with their selection for the new leader of the Roman Catholic Church. Since Pope Francis just passed away recently, this Conclave process is coming up soon, at the beginning of May. The deliberations and negotiations behind doors will last as long as it takes until someone is finally elected. As for the movie itself, I found sticking through it all rather tedious, with men representing different predictable factions vying for an edge against each other. Scandal, tenuous alliances, megalomania and betrayal abound here...these "holy men" would fit in quite well with the Nazgul of Tolkien's Lord of the Rings for their coveting of power. I'm not Catholic and I don't harbor any delusions that their situation is any worse than anyone else's...the urge to lord oneself over others is a human foible, largely male, as I have suffered from this desire on the part of would-be alpha-male "leaders" to make me subservient to them, going all the way back to childhood and continuing through school, work and even into old-age retirement. I don't boss others around, nor do I want to: if you see yourself as my leader, then you ARE deluded and need to stay away. Conclave's depiction of humans in conflict...albeit peaceful conflict...may enhance a story's dramatic appeal to many, but it left me flat and drained. Who cares who they finally picked, and sadly, who cares in the real world how "our" Cardinals will decide...
Thursday, April 24, 2025
Just Finished Reading Wish You Were Here by Rita Mae Brown
Wednesday, April 23, 2025
Weekly Short Stories: 1999 Science Fiction, Part 11
Tuesday, April 22, 2025
Happy Earth Day...If Your "Truth" Allows It
So today is officially Earth Day...are we still interested in it? After all, it's only the one planet we know that can sustain life in our universe. But then again, that pesky former vice-president Al Gore did come out, a little more than a couple of decades ago, with his An Inconvenient Truth book that presented the widely-held view among climatologists that the world is warming at an alarming rate, due to man-made forces. Ever since then, the issue has been divided on political lines with the Democrats generally supporting measures to counteract climate change and the Republicans in a "convenient" state of denial as they go full speed ahead with fossil fuels. I remember back in April 1970 when another Republican, president Richard Nixon, was there at the inauguration of Earth Day. In spite of his flaws, this was a president who understood the fragility of our home planet and supported environmental regulation. It's sad to see much of this fall by the wayside as people nowadays choose their own "truths" and condemn the "other side" as enemies...
Monday, April 21, 2025
Saw Physical Therapist Again Today
Today I went on my appointment to see the physical therapist assigned me regarding my recovery from prostatectomy surgery on March 6th. Although it has indeed been more than six weeks since that time and the general guidelines for resuming running allow for it after that interval, my therapist seems a bit more cautious about it, handing me a paper with some preconditions for returning to running that, frankly, I find a little unreasonable. Oh well, I'm the one who has to make the decisions about that, and I think I'm being cautious enough. In any event, I have four new exercises to work on daily, and then next month I'll have a follow-up p.t. appointment. My physical therapist is also a runner, she does marathons, and is recovering from a leg injury probably caused by overtraining...I have to take this into consideration when taking her advice. Some of the paper's criteria about running, interestingly, don't seem to matter when discussing simple walking. Being someone whose sensibilities about health indicate that between active and sedentary, the former is usually the best road taken, and taking into account that I won't be doing any races anyway that are longer than 5K until October at the earliest because of the hot spring and summer here in northern Florida, I'm inclined to stick to what I've been doing. Which is cautiously incrementally challenging my body...alternating with resting it well...as I continue to heal...
Sunday, April 20, 2025
Easter Celebrated with Family
I hope all of you who celebrate Easter have enjoyed this holiday today. You have to be something of an astronomer to determine, on your own, on which date this honoring of Jesus' resurrection falls within each calendar year. The formula is: Easter (as celebrated in the West, not in the Eastern Orthodox churches) lies on the first Sunday following the first full moon following the first day of spring...for some reason it goes that way, maybe you can enlighten me on why. Melissa and I spent it at home, with various folks in our family stopping by to enjoy lunch with us...what a blessing. Later on in the day I watched the conclusion of the ongoing PGA golf tournament, the Heritage Classic held in Hilton Head, South Carolina. Justin Thomas held on in sudden death to win his first tourney in some years...good for him, I guess. I'm not a golfer...the irony is that were I one, I probably wouldn't have any interest in rooting for one over another in these tournaments. After all, I'm a runner and I absolutely could not care less about the premier runners in the world or this country...or even in my own home town of Gainesville, for that matter. That's another thing that maybe you can enlighten me on why...