The Kite Runner, by Khaled Hosseini, is one of those books that was renown and celebrated (and criticized) years before I ever got around to reading it. But now the deed is done and I'm ready to give my reaction...
In The Kite Runner, the country of interest is Afganistan, the narrative tracing back to 1971 while it was still a kingdom and "progressing" along to a coup d'etat establishing a republic in 1973, the Soviet Union's invasion and occupation through the 1980s, the civil war in the nineties following their withdrawal, and then the takeover by the brutal Taliban in the late 1990s. Yet although I learned quite a lot about this land and its people, beliefs, and culture through this book, it is more a story about betrayal, redemption, and forgiveness than history or geography...
Amir, the protagonist and narrator, is a member of Afghanistan's dominant ethnic group, the Pashtuns...who as Sunni Muslims tend to look down upon others, especially the Shia Muslim Hazari people. Amir's father is a prosperous businessman who has taken under his wings as servants a Hazari man and his son, who is Amir's age and named Hassan. As Amir points out repeatedly with copious examples, Hassan is loyal, humble, and courageous...all qualities that Amir admits to be sorely lacking in. After Hassan has repeatedly and faithfully defended Amir from others over the course of their almost brotherly friendship, Hassan one day finds himself in desperate straits...and Amir cowardly abandons him to his fate. This betrayal, along with the guilty fear that others will learn of it, haunts Amir for years on end...how can he ever redeem himself or be forgiven? And it is this that is truly the core theme of The Kite Runner...
Speaking of the book's title, kite flying in Afghanistan is quite a competitive interactive sport, much different from what we in the United States are accustomed to. Whereas kite flyers here vie to see how novel or fancy of a kite they can make and keep airborne, Afghan kite flyers engage in combat between their kites, using sharp-edged string to sever their opponents' kites from their strings. And when you've cut off a kite, then the race is on for the first "kite runner" to reach it as it falls to the ground...it's a "finders keepers" kind of competition. And who is the best kite runner in Hosseini's tale? None other than Hassan...
It's obvious that The Kite Runner owes a great deal of its popularity to it being published in the years soon after the 9/11 terrorist attacks. Both President Bush and his wife Laura read and praised it, and the book won numerous awards and was adapted to film. Yet in Afghanistan itself there was a great deal of criticism, the bulk of it aimed at what some of their people regard as unfavorable depiction of the Pashtuns. Needless to say, the Taliban weren't too happy with how it portrayed them, either. I myself read it as a human drama and as a confirmation of what I had long known: no matter how exotic the culture may seem on the surface, folks are motivated by pretty much the same things, for better or for worse. It's a good book, and I highly recommend it...
Saturday, November 19, 2016
Friday, November 18, 2016
Quote of the Week...from Mohandas Gandhi
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.
---Mohandas Gandhi
My most immediate reaction from this quote, which I picked up watching my Cox Cable TV's ambient music channel (943), has nothing to do with its content: the attribution is "Mohandas" Gandhi, the celebrated hero of India's independence movement and a pioneer in peaceful resistance. I'd always used the name "Mahatma"...another of his quotes shown on the very same channel uses it as well...so which one is it? After further investigation, it turns out that Mohandas was his original first name and that Mahatma, meaning "great soul", was later given him by a famous Indian poet. Either usage is fine, but now I kind of like Mohandas more...
The second most immediate reaction I got is that Gandhi's words are about happiness and how to attain it...a very common theme in many famous quotes, especially among those that pop up on my television screen. And they all seem to have one thing in common: seeking happiness in itself simply doesn't work...it always seems to be the result of focusing on something else. And that "something else", in Gandhi's opinion, is to coordinate your thoughts, words, and actions to make them congruent and your life consequently one of integrity. I can't say I disagree with this, and it is a pretty simple formula to reach that blissful state we all want to experience...but I also have to admit to having a long way to go before I reach that "harmony". I try to think of fictional characters that embody Gandhi's quote and I immediately came up with two: Hassan, of Khaled Hosseini's book The Kite Runner (which I just finished reading), and Forrest Gump. But I don't necessarily have to delve into fiction in order to find role models...there are a few folks I know who appear to be more or less in tune with their thoughts, words, and deeds...and yes, they seem to be happy as well...
---Mohandas Gandhi
My most immediate reaction from this quote, which I picked up watching my Cox Cable TV's ambient music channel (943), has nothing to do with its content: the attribution is "Mohandas" Gandhi, the celebrated hero of India's independence movement and a pioneer in peaceful resistance. I'd always used the name "Mahatma"...another of his quotes shown on the very same channel uses it as well...so which one is it? After further investigation, it turns out that Mohandas was his original first name and that Mahatma, meaning "great soul", was later given him by a famous Indian poet. Either usage is fine, but now I kind of like Mohandas more...
The second most immediate reaction I got is that Gandhi's words are about happiness and how to attain it...a very common theme in many famous quotes, especially among those that pop up on my television screen. And they all seem to have one thing in common: seeking happiness in itself simply doesn't work...it always seems to be the result of focusing on something else. And that "something else", in Gandhi's opinion, is to coordinate your thoughts, words, and actions to make them congruent and your life consequently one of integrity. I can't say I disagree with this, and it is a pretty simple formula to reach that blissful state we all want to experience...but I also have to admit to having a long way to go before I reach that "harmony". I try to think of fictional characters that embody Gandhi's quote and I immediately came up with two: Hassan, of Khaled Hosseini's book The Kite Runner (which I just finished reading), and Forrest Gump. But I don't necessarily have to delve into fiction in order to find role models...there are a few folks I know who appear to be more or less in tune with their thoughts, words, and deeds...and yes, they seem to be happy as well...
Thursday, November 17, 2016
11/13 Sermon on James, Part 8
Last Sunday The Family Church, which I attend here in Gainesville, continued its series on the book of James, a short piece loaded with exhortations and wisdom found toward the back of the New Testament between the books Hebrews and 1 Peter. Our pastor, Philip Griffin, once again gave the sermon, this time on Chapter 4, Verses 1-12...which we have here in the NIV, thanks to the Bible Gateway website:
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. 3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
4 You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. 5 Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us? 6 But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says:
11 Brothers and sisters, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. 12 There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?
What is going on within our own hearts, and how does it affect our relationships and our calling in life? This passage addresses that: if we harbor wrong motives and desires which the world system places before us instead of that coming from God...especially if we exalt our own pleasures over everything else...we will be misled and fall into disunity and conflict with others. But friendship with God brings grace and solace if we approach him in prayer with humility as empty vessels, possessing nothing on our own but needing everything instead...i.e., embracing spiritual poverty, as the pastor noted. With this fundamentally changed outlook and its fruits of new behaviors marked by grace, compassion, and forgiveness, relationships can be developed with God's unifying love strengthening them...
In presenting this talk, Pastor Philip employed an allusion to the game of baseball: imagine a baseball diamond, with home plate, first base, second base, and third. Then project on these bases the stages of Christian development...home base represents Christ himself and the acceptance of him as savior. First base is character, which is expressed by the transformation through time of one's own heart as a believer. Second base is community, which are the relationships the believer forms and fosters, be they marriage, family, work, church, friends, neighbors, etc. And third base represents competence...finding and implementing God's calling for one in his or her life. The pastor pointed out that the bases have to be run in order...you can't skip home (salvation) to get to first (character), and you can't skip first and successfully form and maintain relationships (second base). Good word picture, but I have one question: "Who's on first?" Abbott and Costello aside, this is still a pertinent question. For it seems to me that all four bases are simultaneously in play, and we all have to deal with that. After all, the work within our hearts to improve our character is a lifelong task: one never leaves first base, in a manner of speaking. But perhaps a better way to look at it...and here the baseball analogy loses some of its force...is that as we mature and grow in our character, the next area, community, will then grow. So while we're engaged in all areas, it's the growth and effectiveness within each area that is ordered, from home to first to second to third...
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. 3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
4 You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. 5 Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us? 6 But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says:
“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” 7 Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9 Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. 10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
What is going on within our own hearts, and how does it affect our relationships and our calling in life? This passage addresses that: if we harbor wrong motives and desires which the world system places before us instead of that coming from God...especially if we exalt our own pleasures over everything else...we will be misled and fall into disunity and conflict with others. But friendship with God brings grace and solace if we approach him in prayer with humility as empty vessels, possessing nothing on our own but needing everything instead...i.e., embracing spiritual poverty, as the pastor noted. With this fundamentally changed outlook and its fruits of new behaviors marked by grace, compassion, and forgiveness, relationships can be developed with God's unifying love strengthening them...
In presenting this talk, Pastor Philip employed an allusion to the game of baseball: imagine a baseball diamond, with home plate, first base, second base, and third. Then project on these bases the stages of Christian development...home base represents Christ himself and the acceptance of him as savior. First base is character, which is expressed by the transformation through time of one's own heart as a believer. Second base is community, which are the relationships the believer forms and fosters, be they marriage, family, work, church, friends, neighbors, etc. And third base represents competence...finding and implementing God's calling for one in his or her life. The pastor pointed out that the bases have to be run in order...you can't skip home (salvation) to get to first (character), and you can't skip first and successfully form and maintain relationships (second base). Good word picture, but I have one question: "Who's on first?" Abbott and Costello aside, this is still a pertinent question. For it seems to me that all four bases are simultaneously in play, and we all have to deal with that. After all, the work within our hearts to improve our character is a lifelong task: one never leaves first base, in a manner of speaking. But perhaps a better way to look at it...and here the baseball analogy loses some of its force...is that as we mature and grow in our character, the next area, community, will then grow. So while we're engaged in all areas, it's the growth and effectiveness within each area that is ordered, from home to first to second to third...
Wednesday, November 16, 2016
Finally Ran Ten Miles
Back on October 31, I tried running for 10 miles but had to settle for only 3.5 after my then-sore throat gave me continuous coughing fits. This morning I set out once again to run around my neighborhood, but this time just to see how I felt as I "ran" up the miles. In the end, I ran those 10 miles, with a final time of 1:39:57. The temperature was in the low 70s and the humidity hovered around 40%: really nice running conditions. It was very sunny, though...no problem: I just wore my sunglasses. I ran while listening to my mp3 player. The music? A shuffled mix of the collected works of Radiohead, Regina Spektor, Kasabian, Beck, David Bowie, Arcade Fire, R.E.M., Sufjan Stevens, and Gorillaz...
Having finally gotten back over this milestone of running 10 miles, I feel encouraged to continue training for upcoming half-marathon (13.1 miles) races in the north Florida area. It's been a long time for me: my last half-marathon race was in February 2015, although I have run a 15K (9.3 miles) and three 5Ks (6.2 miles) since then...
I feel none the worse for wear after my run today, and my throat gave me no trouble. Of course, sometimes I do get leg or foot cramps a little later on as I go through my recovery period. One thing for sure: I'm going to take things easier tomorrow...
Having finally gotten back over this milestone of running 10 miles, I feel encouraged to continue training for upcoming half-marathon (13.1 miles) races in the north Florida area. It's been a long time for me: my last half-marathon race was in February 2015, although I have run a 15K (9.3 miles) and three 5Ks (6.2 miles) since then...
I feel none the worse for wear after my run today, and my throat gave me no trouble. Of course, sometimes I do get leg or foot cramps a little later on as I go through my recovery period. One thing for sure: I'm going to take things easier tomorrow...
Tuesday, November 15, 2016
Trump and Future Supreme Court Nominees
Yesterday I went into what is probably a flight of political fantasy by suggesting that Donald Trump might help his own political relations with the Senate by pushing the Republicans to let his predecessor's U.S. Supreme Court pick to go through the confirmation process before he himself is sworn into office on January 20. Trump has already flatly stated that he would only pick candidates for the high court from a list of 21 he has made public for a couple of months. But it wouldn't necessarily be breaking a campaign promise if my idea is implemented...after all, Merrick Garland is Obama's nominee. Still, I'm realistic enough to recognize that the president-elect won't take advantage of this opportunity to preemptively break the spirit of certain gridlock and obstruction that awaits his presidency. After all, the Democrats in the Senate remember only too clearly what the Republicans under Mitch McConnell's "leadership" did to Obama during his two terms as president...
As for that short-list of Trump's SCOTUS possibilities, here are the names, courtesy of the Trump campaign website:
1. Keith Blackwell
2. Charles Canady
3. Steven Colloton
4. Allison Eid
5. Neil Gorsuch
6. Raymond Gruender
7. Thomas Hardiman
8. Raymond Kethledge
9. Joan Larsen
10. Mike Lee
11. Thomas Lee
12. Edward Mansfield
13. Federico Moreno
14. William Pryor
15. Margaret A. Ryan
16. Amul Thapar
17. Timothy Tymkovich
18. David Stras
19. Diane Sykes
20. Don Willett
21. Robert Young
I only know a couple of these names...Senator Mike Lee (of Utah), a staunch tea-party conservative who is incidentally a close political ally of Ted Cruz and a great speaker, and Justice Charles Canady, who has been on the Florida Supreme Court for several years and served a stint on it as Chief Justice. I'll be checking on some of the other names to see how viable a list this will be for Trump to draw upon. After all, he will have to get whatever nominees he does choose through the Senate confirmation process...by no means automatic with the Republican control of that body already narrowed by two seats in the recent election...
As for that short-list of Trump's SCOTUS possibilities, here are the names, courtesy of the Trump campaign website:
1. Keith Blackwell
2. Charles Canady
3. Steven Colloton
4. Allison Eid
5. Neil Gorsuch
6. Raymond Gruender
7. Thomas Hardiman
8. Raymond Kethledge
9. Joan Larsen
10. Mike Lee
11. Thomas Lee
12. Edward Mansfield
13. Federico Moreno
14. William Pryor
15. Margaret A. Ryan
16. Amul Thapar
17. Timothy Tymkovich
18. David Stras
19. Diane Sykes
20. Don Willett
21. Robert Young
I only know a couple of these names...Senator Mike Lee (of Utah), a staunch tea-party conservative who is incidentally a close political ally of Ted Cruz and a great speaker, and Justice Charles Canady, who has been on the Florida Supreme Court for several years and served a stint on it as Chief Justice. I'll be checking on some of the other names to see how viable a list this will be for Trump to draw upon. After all, he will have to get whatever nominees he does choose through the Senate confirmation process...by no means automatic with the Republican control of that body already narrowed by two seats in the recent election...
Monday, November 14, 2016
Assorted Thoughts on a Cool, Overcast Day
Today has been one of those days here in Gainesville that I relish: overcast skies and cool, dry weather. I went out on a neighborhood run and thoroughly enjoyed the experience...now I'm sitting outside my most frequented Starbucks writing this. Since I don't have any special topic to write about today, I decided instead to touch upon some miscellaneous things about which I've written recently...
That run I did this morning was short...only 3.3 miles...but I feel that I have turned the corner in my efforts to get my running distance back up to 2010-levels. The problem with today is that I began my run too late and realized that spending too much time out there would put undo time pressure on the rest of my activities before I went off to work. I'm still holding out hopes of getting in a half-marathon race before year's end, although if it happens it won't be until December. I do plan to run (for the third time) in Gainesville's 10K Turkey Trot at the Tacachale center on Thanksgiving Day...
I've reached the point in political discourse with others where I don't feel comfortable expressing my opinions without them flying off the handle and getting hyperemotional, whether they were for or against Trump. So instead I think I'll just limit my opinions to my writing and some of the mature folks in my life I can trust to keep things in perspective. I will say this: the incoming president has a golden opportunity to change the atmosphere of confrontation and obstruction between the Oval Office and Congress during this lame duck session of the Obama administration. For example, he could show his influence and statesmanship by insisting that the Senate go ahead with the Merrick Garland Supreme Court nomination that the current president submitted many months ago but was held up by Majority Leader McConnell. This would get things off to a constructive start in terms of preventing retaliatory obstruction by the Democrats and would show Trump's strength of leadership even before he stepped into office. But I don't think he has the guts or wisdom to do this, and we'll end up seeing more of the "same ol' same ol'" posturing and nonsense that serves no one...
I carefully watched the pregame ceremonies before the National Football League contest between Seattle and New England to ascertain how the players would behave during the national anthem and the presentations honoring our veterans. I was impressed in a positive way...I think that some of the players did hold their heads down, which to me is still respectful and yet expressive of their concerns about what they see as unwarranted violence against blacks by the police. I'm sure there are still players following Colin Kaepernick's lead by putting on a show of defiance, but on the whole I think the League, with its imperfections, is trying to play the role of peacemaker while still honoring our great nation. So I'm once again following NFL football, not that my "boycott" ever meant anything since I've never spent a dime on a game or any of their products anyway...
I'm sitting here facing north and am noticing that blue is breaking out in that part of the sky. Oh well, the cool dreariness was good while it lasted. Besides, I'll be indoors soon at my job, cut off from this wonderful weather...
That run I did this morning was short...only 3.3 miles...but I feel that I have turned the corner in my efforts to get my running distance back up to 2010-levels. The problem with today is that I began my run too late and realized that spending too much time out there would put undo time pressure on the rest of my activities before I went off to work. I'm still holding out hopes of getting in a half-marathon race before year's end, although if it happens it won't be until December. I do plan to run (for the third time) in Gainesville's 10K Turkey Trot at the Tacachale center on Thanksgiving Day...
I've reached the point in political discourse with others where I don't feel comfortable expressing my opinions without them flying off the handle and getting hyperemotional, whether they were for or against Trump. So instead I think I'll just limit my opinions to my writing and some of the mature folks in my life I can trust to keep things in perspective. I will say this: the incoming president has a golden opportunity to change the atmosphere of confrontation and obstruction between the Oval Office and Congress during this lame duck session of the Obama administration. For example, he could show his influence and statesmanship by insisting that the Senate go ahead with the Merrick Garland Supreme Court nomination that the current president submitted many months ago but was held up by Majority Leader McConnell. This would get things off to a constructive start in terms of preventing retaliatory obstruction by the Democrats and would show Trump's strength of leadership even before he stepped into office. But I don't think he has the guts or wisdom to do this, and we'll end up seeing more of the "same ol' same ol'" posturing and nonsense that serves no one...
I carefully watched the pregame ceremonies before the National Football League contest between Seattle and New England to ascertain how the players would behave during the national anthem and the presentations honoring our veterans. I was impressed in a positive way...I think that some of the players did hold their heads down, which to me is still respectful and yet expressive of their concerns about what they see as unwarranted violence against blacks by the police. I'm sure there are still players following Colin Kaepernick's lead by putting on a show of defiance, but on the whole I think the League, with its imperfections, is trying to play the role of peacemaker while still honoring our great nation. So I'm once again following NFL football, not that my "boycott" ever meant anything since I've never spent a dime on a game or any of their products anyway...
I'm sitting here facing north and am noticing that blue is breaking out in that part of the sky. Oh well, the cool dreariness was good while it lasted. Besides, I'll be indoors soon at my job, cut off from this wonderful weather...
Sunday, November 13, 2016
Florida Gators Football Team in a Good Place Right Now
The 2016 edition of University of Florida football wasn't given much of a chance to do anything, according to many of the so-called experts in our national sports media. Yet here they are in mid-November with only two games to go in the regular season, sporting a 7-2 overall record and leading the Southeastern Conference's East Division. It's true that the remaining games will be difficult to win: Next Saturday at Baton Rouge against Louisiana State and the following week against FSU. And if the Gators do manage to get by LSU, then they will be playing against the number one team in the country, Alabama, for the conference championship...and then there's still that season-ending bowl game to think about. Not an easy road to travel down, to say the least. Still, this team, coached in his second year here by Jim McElwain, has shown a great deal of resilience to get this far. Although their quarterback play has been inconsistent so far and plagued by injuries, the improved offensive line has allowed them to play a more ball-control type of attack that has helped keep their defense off the field and less tired. With a couple of exceptions (their two losses to Tennessee and Arkansas), that defense has been spectacular! And don't get me started talking about their placekicker Eddy Pineiro...
Back in 2009, when Florida had already won two national championships under Urban Meyer and was shooting for a third, the fans here simply got to where they expected, as a matter of course, another championship, with anything less considered to be a failed season. That's been pretty much the case during the last few years with the Alabama fans, too. For me, I'd rather have a competitive team, the way the Gators are now, that makes a good run almost every year and is still in contention for a title late in the season. Sure, Florida has its shortcomings in some areas, but they have a lot of spirit and a coach who seems to be a genuine leader. Let's just suppose that all of the bigshots on TV who aren't giving UF any chance for the remainder of the year are wrong and that the Gators instead win their next three games. That would mean that Florida, with a 10-2 record and the championship of the toughest conference in the nation, would be in a position to make the case for inclusion in the four-team national championship playoff. But would that be a realistic assumption, given that they still would have lost two games? My answer: remember LSU's two-loss national championship team of 2007...
It's fun to be this late in the season and still be able to daydream about my hometown team, realistically or not...
Back in 2009, when Florida had already won two national championships under Urban Meyer and was shooting for a third, the fans here simply got to where they expected, as a matter of course, another championship, with anything less considered to be a failed season. That's been pretty much the case during the last few years with the Alabama fans, too. For me, I'd rather have a competitive team, the way the Gators are now, that makes a good run almost every year and is still in contention for a title late in the season. Sure, Florida has its shortcomings in some areas, but they have a lot of spirit and a coach who seems to be a genuine leader. Let's just suppose that all of the bigshots on TV who aren't giving UF any chance for the remainder of the year are wrong and that the Gators instead win their next three games. That would mean that Florida, with a 10-2 record and the championship of the toughest conference in the nation, would be in a position to make the case for inclusion in the four-team national championship playoff. But would that be a realistic assumption, given that they still would have lost two games? My answer: remember LSU's two-loss national championship team of 2007...
It's fun to be this late in the season and still be able to daydream about my hometown team, realistically or not...
Saturday, November 12, 2016
Just Finished Reading Ruth Rendell's The Best Man to Die
The Best Man to Die is the fourth book in the late English mystery writer Ruth Rendell's Inspector Wexford series. As has been the case in all of her books I've read so far, this book is very England-centered and goes deeply into that country's culture...and often different vocabulary. Once again, Kingsmarkham's Chief Inspector Reginald Wexford teams up with his deputy inspector Mike Burden to go after a couple of mysteries, this time the late night murder of a suddenly-prosperous lorry ("truck") driver and a fatal car crash, one of the victims unexplained by her presence and identity. We get to know the inspector's family better, with his daughter coming to town...and dumping her boyfriend's dog on him to take care of for a while. And against his own wishes, a lift ("elevator') is installed in his police station...guess what happens when he finally decides to ride it alone?
The Best Man to Die, for me, was the most satisfying of the Inspector Wexford novels I've yet read. We have here the red herring suspects, problematic disappearances, and seemingly inexplicable situations that are staple fare in mystery stories. And that "lift" ride plays its own role in how it all is resolved at the end. A short, fun sleuthing mystery! Now onward to the next book in this series...
The Best Man to Die, for me, was the most satisfying of the Inspector Wexford novels I've yet read. We have here the red herring suspects, problematic disappearances, and seemingly inexplicable situations that are staple fare in mystery stories. And that "lift" ride plays its own role in how it all is resolved at the end. A short, fun sleuthing mystery! Now onward to the next book in this series...
Friday, November 11, 2016
Quote of the Week...From Oscar Wilde
What seems to us as bitter trials are often blessings in disguise.
---Oscar Wilde
Here's a new feature to this blog: the "quote of the week"...
Although I have an incredible number of TV channels to choose from, I often find that all of my surfing through them is fruitless and end up on Music Choice, which here in Gainesville with Cox Cable occupies Channels 900 and up and offers genre-based music. On Channel 943 is Soundscapes, which features instrumental music that is often called ambient, new age, or space. I like the soothing music on it, but I also enjoy viewing the various quotes that pop up on the screen every few seconds. Their messages are generally encouraging or philosophical in nature, and some have practical value. These quotes range from famous historical figures to current celebrities, and while I generally agree with them, every now and then I have to object...a few weeks ago I wrote about one like this from Oprah Winfrey. But today's quote is from English writer Oscar Wilde, probably most famous for his novel The Picture of Dorian Gray, which I recently read . Sometimes in order to understand a short statement like a quote, you need to know its context. And while the above quote might take on a clearer meaning if I knew Wilde's own circumstances in making it, it seems to me to have a universal application...
First of all, I will say that I wholeheartedly agree with Oscar Wilde's quote, and that's mainly because he used the word "often" to connect bitter trials with blessings in disguise. Not all bitter trials resolve themselves in a favorable manner to us, and it is small consolation to say that at least we "learned" something from them...often that lesson leads to cynicism and despair. On the other hand, the writer of the Bible's New Testament book of James, which my church has been covering of late, fully embraces the opinion that passing through difficult hardships makes one stronger in faith and perseverance. And wasn't it the German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche who once wrote, "That which does not kill us makes us stronger"? As far as I'm concerned, the attitude I take through whatever trials I am experiencing will largely determine how they are resolved, as well as the resulting change in myself that having gone through them will reveal. If I throw up my hands and play the blame game against others as well as "Monday morning quarterback" with all kinds of hindsight-based recriminations, then my mind is focused on the past and not on how to get through the crisis. On the other hand, if I reduce the trial to specifics and tackle each sub-problem within it in a dispassionate and constructive manner without pulling down others around me into a negative cloud, then I am much more likely to arise from the difficulty stronger and more confident in my ability to face problems in the future...
I think a lot of folks who are in a state of despair over the outcome of this recent presidential election see themselves as going through a bitter trial. But instead of descending into cynicism and hatred, it will be more constructive to look at the steps they can take from now on, given the changed circumstances, to forge for themselves and those around them a better future. No, I'm not happy Trump was elected, and I'm afraid he's going to do some pretty awful things as president...hope I'm wrong about this, I know I'll be elated if I am. But there are things I can do, and then there are things that are beyond my control: how well I get through "bitter trials", regardless of their nature, depends in large part on me being able and willing to recognize the difference...
---Oscar Wilde
Here's a new feature to this blog: the "quote of the week"...
Although I have an incredible number of TV channels to choose from, I often find that all of my surfing through them is fruitless and end up on Music Choice, which here in Gainesville with Cox Cable occupies Channels 900 and up and offers genre-based music. On Channel 943 is Soundscapes, which features instrumental music that is often called ambient, new age, or space. I like the soothing music on it, but I also enjoy viewing the various quotes that pop up on the screen every few seconds. Their messages are generally encouraging or philosophical in nature, and some have practical value. These quotes range from famous historical figures to current celebrities, and while I generally agree with them, every now and then I have to object...a few weeks ago I wrote about one like this from Oprah Winfrey. But today's quote is from English writer Oscar Wilde, probably most famous for his novel The Picture of Dorian Gray, which I recently read . Sometimes in order to understand a short statement like a quote, you need to know its context. And while the above quote might take on a clearer meaning if I knew Wilde's own circumstances in making it, it seems to me to have a universal application...
First of all, I will say that I wholeheartedly agree with Oscar Wilde's quote, and that's mainly because he used the word "often" to connect bitter trials with blessings in disguise. Not all bitter trials resolve themselves in a favorable manner to us, and it is small consolation to say that at least we "learned" something from them...often that lesson leads to cynicism and despair. On the other hand, the writer of the Bible's New Testament book of James, which my church has been covering of late, fully embraces the opinion that passing through difficult hardships makes one stronger in faith and perseverance. And wasn't it the German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche who once wrote, "That which does not kill us makes us stronger"? As far as I'm concerned, the attitude I take through whatever trials I am experiencing will largely determine how they are resolved, as well as the resulting change in myself that having gone through them will reveal. If I throw up my hands and play the blame game against others as well as "Monday morning quarterback" with all kinds of hindsight-based recriminations, then my mind is focused on the past and not on how to get through the crisis. On the other hand, if I reduce the trial to specifics and tackle each sub-problem within it in a dispassionate and constructive manner without pulling down others around me into a negative cloud, then I am much more likely to arise from the difficulty stronger and more confident in my ability to face problems in the future...
I think a lot of folks who are in a state of despair over the outcome of this recent presidential election see themselves as going through a bitter trial. But instead of descending into cynicism and hatred, it will be more constructive to look at the steps they can take from now on, given the changed circumstances, to forge for themselves and those around them a better future. No, I'm not happy Trump was elected, and I'm afraid he's going to do some pretty awful things as president...hope I'm wrong about this, I know I'll be elated if I am. But there are things I can do, and then there are things that are beyond my control: how well I get through "bitter trials", regardless of their nature, depends in large part on me being able and willing to recognize the difference...
Thursday, November 10, 2016
11/6 Sermon on James, Part 7
This past Sunday at Gainesville's Family Church our pastor, Philip Griffin, continued his series of talks about the New Testament book of James, with this seventh installment being about wisdom: how to recognize what it is, how to obtain it, and how to know when you have it. The scriptures covered are James 3:13-18, which are shown below, in the New International Version via the Bible Gateway website...
13 Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. 14 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. 15 Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. 16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.
17 But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. 18 Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.
Regarding the "good" life in Verse 13, Pastor Philip pointed out that the original Greek word used here was not the "good" that means "moral", but rather a different word meaning "beautiful" or "attractive"...i.e. an attractive, beautiful life for others to see and follow. He referred back to the first chapter, which stressed the importance of hardships in gaining understanding and perseverance. First, one needs information, which leads to transformation, which leads to application. If a believer isn't applying God's wisdom, then maybe it's an issue of what's deep down in the heart...which ultimately derives from the information that they have accepted as truth, which is the wisdom of the world and not that of God...
Near the end of the talk, the pastor brought up what he regards as the three stages of relationships, be they in the context of marriage, family, workplace, church, or simply friendships: the honeymoon stage, the conflict stage, and the true relationship stage. With the honeymoon stage, people look upon each other as they want to see them. With the conflict stage, each recognizes the other does not meet up to their previously idealized expectations...and they try to change them to conform to those expectations. And with the true relationship stage, the parties finally recognize and respect each other...through the wisdom and maturity attained after weathering the conflict state...for who they truly are and not as projections of their own desires and goals. Unfortunately, many relationships do not survive that important conflict stage into maturity and they end, often bitterly. And many also try to rekindle that honeymoon stage by going outside the relationship with others...not a good idea either. That does not mean that in a true relationship there is never conflict: but when conflicts do happen (and they will), they are instead addressed and resolved in a compassionate yet honest manner that respects the personal integrity and dignity of the other, with grace and mercy playing preeminent roles...
I wasn't able to make it to church to hear this sermon, but was still able to get it by going on the church's YouTube video website. You can follow it as well by clicking on this link: [link]...
13 Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. 14 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. 15 Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. 16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.
17 But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. 18 Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.
Regarding the "good" life in Verse 13, Pastor Philip pointed out that the original Greek word used here was not the "good" that means "moral", but rather a different word meaning "beautiful" or "attractive"...i.e. an attractive, beautiful life for others to see and follow. He referred back to the first chapter, which stressed the importance of hardships in gaining understanding and perseverance. First, one needs information, which leads to transformation, which leads to application. If a believer isn't applying God's wisdom, then maybe it's an issue of what's deep down in the heart...which ultimately derives from the information that they have accepted as truth, which is the wisdom of the world and not that of God...
Near the end of the talk, the pastor brought up what he regards as the three stages of relationships, be they in the context of marriage, family, workplace, church, or simply friendships: the honeymoon stage, the conflict stage, and the true relationship stage. With the honeymoon stage, people look upon each other as they want to see them. With the conflict stage, each recognizes the other does not meet up to their previously idealized expectations...and they try to change them to conform to those expectations. And with the true relationship stage, the parties finally recognize and respect each other...through the wisdom and maturity attained after weathering the conflict state...for who they truly are and not as projections of their own desires and goals. Unfortunately, many relationships do not survive that important conflict stage into maturity and they end, often bitterly. And many also try to rekindle that honeymoon stage by going outside the relationship with others...not a good idea either. That does not mean that in a true relationship there is never conflict: but when conflicts do happen (and they will), they are instead addressed and resolved in a compassionate yet honest manner that respects the personal integrity and dignity of the other, with grace and mercy playing preeminent roles...
I wasn't able to make it to church to hear this sermon, but was still able to get it by going on the church's YouTube video website. You can follow it as well by clicking on this link: [link]...
Wednesday, November 9, 2016
Just Finished Reading James Patterson's The 8th Confession
Continuing with James Patterson's Women's Murder Club crime series, I just finished reading The 8th Confession, yet another writing collaboration of his with Maxine Paetro. Once again, the setting is San Francisco and the main protagonist is police homicide investigator Lindsay Boxer. She typically works informally with her friends Cindy (a reporter), Yuki (an assistant d.a.), and Claire (a medical examiner), trying to solve murders and disappearances while each deals with their own personal issues as they meet together to brainstorm everything out and give each other support. This particular story features two main plot lines: a string of mysterious deaths of rich and famous people with questionable reputations and the brutal beating death of someone who appeared to be an advocate for the homeless. I enjoyed this book a lot, even though the police once again are abusive and deceitful toward suspects and witnesses...a distasteful recurring element of this series. Although some of the earlier novels in this series weren't very good, Patterson and Paetro have, with this eighth entry published in 2009, got their formula down pat and seem very comfortable with the characters...both the heroes and villains are believable and interesting, and that's what makes it all work for me...
Tuesday, November 8, 2016
Escape the Election With The Weather Channel
The Weather Channel came up with a pretty cool idea for those of us who are completely burned out on this year's election: from three o'clock this afternoon until midnight, it changes its programming to something it calls "Escape the Election". While some of the media outlets are gearing up for extreme election results coverage and analysis, this channel will be continuously presenting beautiful nature scenes, accompanied by light jazz music. Not that The Weather Channel gets into politics anyway, but I guess their thinking is that they'll get more viewers with their promise of "no coverage". It just so happens that I'll be at work for the entire duration of this alternative to the election: I would have preferred them to have extended their show until at least two in the morning. On the other hand, I have a surefire remedy for those who don't want to risk seeing election coverage on their television set: TURN IT OFF! Go sit outside, go to a park, do a jigsaw puzzle, play a board or card game with your family, take a nap, read a book, clean out the garage, listen to your own music collection, cook, meditate, pray, eat, go running or biking or whatever sport you like...I think you get my point. Besides, I seriously doubt that every single TV channel will be devoting itself to the election results...I imagine that most of them aren't. Still, I'm happy that The Weather Channel is offering this service today. Only one problem: sooner or later, we're all gonna have to come to terms with the election results. Sigh...
Oh, by the way, you might just want to keep off the Internet for the rest of the day, too. And that especially means Facebook! Well, unless, that is, you're one of those who thrives in the middle of all this political crap...
Oh, by the way, you might just want to keep off the Internet for the rest of the day, too. And that especially means Facebook! Well, unless, that is, you're one of those who thrives in the middle of all this political crap...
Monday, November 7, 2016
Two Days Before the Day After (the Election)
The Sunday before last, at a little past noon, I got the brilliant idea of driving out to the nearby Millhopper branch of my Alachua County public library system, where I knew they were holding early voting for tomorrow's election. I was going to stand at the entrance with my camera and photograph the plethora of different campaign signs planted there...and call it the "2016 Election Sign Garden". Alas, when I arrived, though, two police cars were there flashing their blue lights and a number of people were holding campaign signs and waving at passers-by, effectively messing up my "garden"...so I left without taking a pic. Fast forward to yesterday afternoon at the same location...I had a library book due and I was looking for another to check out, but I was wary of encountering early voting congestion there. No need to have worried: early voting had ended, along with every single campaign sign that had been planted there. Well, my election garden was gone, but I enjoyed the complete lack of any reminder of this horrendous, discouraging campaign season...
With an acknowledging nod to the title of one of my favorite South Park episodes, today marks "two days before the day after the election". Although Wednesday is my ultimate goal, with the nasty, awful campaigning hopefully finally placed behind us, I have to recognize today...the "day before"...as the last complete day of the campaign. For as soon as the polls close tomorrow evening...at least here in Florida...I am going to celebrate, regardless which candidates end up winning the various races. I will be at work when the results of the presidential race begin to filter through the media and, as was the case in 2012, will find out who won through hearsay from my co-workers...I myself will instead be listening to David Bowie, Beck, or an audio-book on my mp3 player...
Melissa and I plan to go vote at our local precinct tomorrow morning. Personally, I don't like voting early, although if it suits others then the more power to them. I feel a sense of civic pride that I am a responsible participant in my country's representative democracy when I go to my polling place on election day. And I feel a sense of camaraderie with others who are also there to vote, whether they go along with my choices or not. Voting is a celebration of the great freedom we have in America to choose our leaders...but I'm afraid that many of us refuse to accept the results unless their preferred candidate wins. Whoever wins the Presidency will be my president and the winners of the other races will represent me in their future positions, whether or not I voted for them...this is an essential element of democracy that every citizen should understand. It's too bad that so many will not recognize this and that, whoever wins, a substantial portion of the population will be in a state of near-rebellion, refusing to accept their newly-elected leader as legitimate. You can openly express your opposition to the new president's policies and actions and campaign for his or her defeat in the next election...but somewhere along the line you need to agree that this individual is your duly elected president, and with that agreement comes the expectation of respect for that office...even if you dislike the person occupying it...
With an acknowledging nod to the title of one of my favorite South Park episodes, today marks "two days before the day after the election". Although Wednesday is my ultimate goal, with the nasty, awful campaigning hopefully finally placed behind us, I have to recognize today...the "day before"...as the last complete day of the campaign. For as soon as the polls close tomorrow evening...at least here in Florida...I am going to celebrate, regardless which candidates end up winning the various races. I will be at work when the results of the presidential race begin to filter through the media and, as was the case in 2012, will find out who won through hearsay from my co-workers...I myself will instead be listening to David Bowie, Beck, or an audio-book on my mp3 player...
Melissa and I plan to go vote at our local precinct tomorrow morning. Personally, I don't like voting early, although if it suits others then the more power to them. I feel a sense of civic pride that I am a responsible participant in my country's representative democracy when I go to my polling place on election day. And I feel a sense of camaraderie with others who are also there to vote, whether they go along with my choices or not. Voting is a celebration of the great freedom we have in America to choose our leaders...but I'm afraid that many of us refuse to accept the results unless their preferred candidate wins. Whoever wins the Presidency will be my president and the winners of the other races will represent me in their future positions, whether or not I voted for them...this is an essential element of democracy that every citizen should understand. It's too bad that so many will not recognize this and that, whoever wins, a substantial portion of the population will be in a state of near-rebellion, refusing to accept their newly-elected leader as legitimate. You can openly express your opposition to the new president's policies and actions and campaign for his or her defeat in the next election...but somewhere along the line you need to agree that this individual is your duly elected president, and with that agreement comes the expectation of respect for that office...even if you dislike the person occupying it...
Sunday, November 6, 2016
Our Trip to North Georgia
For the last few days, Melissa and I traveled around northern Georgia, enjoying the mountains, shady trails, and an old-style railroad that reminded me of The Polar Express...albeit without Tom Hanks or the hot chocolate. We saw our share of sites, staying overnight at Kennesaw and then spending two days in the far northern town of Blue Ridge. There we rode their passenger train to the Georgia/Tennessee border, with a brief layover in the towns of McCaysville and Copper Hill. Then we drove over to Anna Ruby Falls in the northeastern corner of the state...what a beautiful hike along the brook with all of the different plants and the massive stones...by the way, Melissa drove around the steep mountain roads like she was brought up there! After a two-mile-long traffic jam surrounding nearby Helen, which was oversaturated with tourists searching for a restaurant or business that could accommodate them, we headed down to Gainesville (Georgia) to link up with I-985 for our journey back. But alongside US 129, close to the I-985 entrance, a number of sections of the GROUND were on fire, with flames lapping up on the street as we passed by! Yes, a "city on fire"...I believe that was the title of a book I read recently. I wonder what that was all about...
Our hotel accommodations were splendid throughout the trip, and we had a couple of great dining experiences with southern-style restaurants...Mike's in Ellijay and Southern Charm in Blue Ridge. Once again, I was struck by the good-natured, natural hospitality of the folks living in this region. We had to pick and choose where we went, so there's plenty of stuff left for us to do in future outings in north Georgia. All in all, a great time for Melissa and me!
And now, a whole lot of pictures...
Our hotel accommodations were splendid throughout the trip, and we had a couple of great dining experiences with southern-style restaurants...Mike's in Ellijay and Southern Charm in Blue Ridge. Once again, I was struck by the good-natured, natural hospitality of the folks living in this region. We had to pick and choose where we went, so there's plenty of stuff left for us to do in future outings in north Georgia. All in all, a great time for Melissa and me!
And now, a whole lot of pictures...
Friday, November 4, 2016
The Doomsday Scientist
A few days ago I was watching the National Geographic Explorer TV channel and a program was on about global warming/climate change, hosted by Bill Nye (the Science Guy). I think it was just a year old, so we're talking pretty recently. Toward the end of the show he interviewed a University of Arizona ecologist named Guy McPherson, who predicted that there will be no more human life on Earth by the year 2030. Yes, that's what he said...we'll be extinct by then, and it will be due to the cascading effects of human civilization-caused superheating of the planet from built-up carbon dioxide as well as methane gas. The seas will become lifeless and the oxygen will disappear from the atmosphere. McPherson didn't explain all of his reasoning to Nye, but I did look him up on Wikipedia and saw his blog page, which goes into much greater detail about his somber conclusion on humanity in the near future...
In looking at the current situation we have with increasing carbon dioxide levels in the atmosphere, McPherson decided to investigate the Great Permian Mass-Extinction of 250 million years ago, when almost all life on Earth was obliterated. The trigger event for this seems to have been the eruption of massive super-volcanos in what is now Siberia, causing fires over the area and smoke and ashes surrounding the planet. But the fires then ignited the masses of coal deposits underneath the surface, and Earth went into a long-term greenhouse effect with mass releases into the atmosphere of methane gas, much more potent in its greenhouse effect than CO2. The oceans and the atmosphere were starved of oxygen and nearly all of the animal and plant species on Earth became extinct. Now that process back then, as McPherson recognizes, took place over a much longer time span than the global warming going on in our time. But in both cases, he emphasizes the concept of "self-enforcing feedback loops" that accelerated the process back then and now as well. For example, global warming melts ice in the far north, but that ice melting exposes holes in the Earth where large methane deposits have been held dormant for millions of years. Now they are being released into the atmosphere and speeding up the heating. The more the heating, the faster the methane is exposed and released, which speeds up the heating further...
Guy McPherson does not place much hope in the efforts taken today to restrain carbon emissions, and he thinks a carbon tax is ridiculous. No, he believes we have already gone too far, and this process leading ultimately to his predicted doom in the too-near future began with human civilization thousands of years ago with the advent of agriculture...
I just heard about this guy last week and already the world's coming to an end? Uh, please give me a little more time to ingest this! But McPherson does seem to have his own following, a growing doomsday cult if you will. His conclusions show to me how someone, if they package their theories in a compelling manner, can pretty much sell anything. Listen to the folks who are global warming deniers: some of them sound pretty convincing, too. Look, if we're all perishing in fifteen years anyway, it won't matter, in terms of our habitat on Earth, what I do now with my time or "carbon footprint", and if there is no human-induced climate change, the same is also true. So in a perverse sort of way, Guy McPherson, with his presentation of impending and certain human extinction, is making the point for folks who want to just forget about climate change and do whatever they want with the environment, for better or...more likely...for worse...
In looking at the current situation we have with increasing carbon dioxide levels in the atmosphere, McPherson decided to investigate the Great Permian Mass-Extinction of 250 million years ago, when almost all life on Earth was obliterated. The trigger event for this seems to have been the eruption of massive super-volcanos in what is now Siberia, causing fires over the area and smoke and ashes surrounding the planet. But the fires then ignited the masses of coal deposits underneath the surface, and Earth went into a long-term greenhouse effect with mass releases into the atmosphere of methane gas, much more potent in its greenhouse effect than CO2. The oceans and the atmosphere were starved of oxygen and nearly all of the animal and plant species on Earth became extinct. Now that process back then, as McPherson recognizes, took place over a much longer time span than the global warming going on in our time. But in both cases, he emphasizes the concept of "self-enforcing feedback loops" that accelerated the process back then and now as well. For example, global warming melts ice in the far north, but that ice melting exposes holes in the Earth where large methane deposits have been held dormant for millions of years. Now they are being released into the atmosphere and speeding up the heating. The more the heating, the faster the methane is exposed and released, which speeds up the heating further...
Guy McPherson does not place much hope in the efforts taken today to restrain carbon emissions, and he thinks a carbon tax is ridiculous. No, he believes we have already gone too far, and this process leading ultimately to his predicted doom in the too-near future began with human civilization thousands of years ago with the advent of agriculture...
I just heard about this guy last week and already the world's coming to an end? Uh, please give me a little more time to ingest this! But McPherson does seem to have his own following, a growing doomsday cult if you will. His conclusions show to me how someone, if they package their theories in a compelling manner, can pretty much sell anything. Listen to the folks who are global warming deniers: some of them sound pretty convincing, too. Look, if we're all perishing in fifteen years anyway, it won't matter, in terms of our habitat on Earth, what I do now with my time or "carbon footprint", and if there is no human-induced climate change, the same is also true. So in a perverse sort of way, Guy McPherson, with his presentation of impending and certain human extinction, is making the point for folks who want to just forget about climate change and do whatever they want with the environment, for better or...more likely...for worse...
Thursday, November 3, 2016
10/30 Sermon on James, Part 6
This past Sunday at Gainesville's Family Church, Pastor Philip Griffin began Chapter 3 in his sermon series on the New Testament book of James, focusing on how uncontrollable the tongue is. Here are the verses he covered, once again in the New International Version as provided by Bible Gateway:
Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. 2 We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check.
3 When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. 4 Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5 Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12 My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.
So, as the pastor pointed out, that old nursery rhyme "Sticks and stones can break my bones but names will never hurt me" isn't at all true, as broken bones will completely heal in a few months but words of derision and ridicule can have a lifelong negative effect. It is important to be careful about what we say, but ultimately we screw up...well, at least speaking for myself, I screw up from time to time. According to James, the effects of an uncontrolled tongue is similar to that of a great forest fire, out of control...it cannot be tamed. So what hope is there in all this, then? As Pastor Philip pointed out, what we say in the end reveals what is in our hearts. And if we have turned our hearts over to God, then He will reveal himself through our words of compassion and grace. And that is the only way to control the tongue...
Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. 2 We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check.
3 When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. 4 Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5 Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12 My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.
So, as the pastor pointed out, that old nursery rhyme "Sticks and stones can break my bones but names will never hurt me" isn't at all true, as broken bones will completely heal in a few months but words of derision and ridicule can have a lifelong negative effect. It is important to be careful about what we say, but ultimately we screw up...well, at least speaking for myself, I screw up from time to time. According to James, the effects of an uncontrolled tongue is similar to that of a great forest fire, out of control...it cannot be tamed. So what hope is there in all this, then? As Pastor Philip pointed out, what we say in the end reveals what is in our hearts. And if we have turned our hearts over to God, then He will reveal himself through our words of compassion and grace. And that is the only way to control the tongue...
Wednesday, November 2, 2016
Neighborhood Social Media
When I first set out to publish my blog on the worldwide web in 2007, I had in mind a reading audience that itself was worldwide. This did happen, but to only a small extent: I didn't promote my blog as others do, but rather wrote my (usually) daily articles as a personal exercise in writing. Still, readers would sometimes respond from other parts of the U.S.A. and other countries. But back then, blogging was considered the primary means of social media on the Internet...MySpace was in itself a blogging site and many enjoyed its user-friendliness. But when Facebook started, much of the blogging community switched over to that format and it become more socially networked around people's personal friends, family, acquaintances, and associates...and the more cosmopolitan nature of the blog dwindled as the web drew in on itself. I resisted Facebook for a few years...although I had nominally been a member...until I realized that my blog readership had diminished along with that social media site's rise. So in early 2013 I began to link my blog articles on Facebook and work to increase my readership by that means. But it took away the more random sort of reader just the same...that's a shame, in my opinion...
Although Facebook does the service of bringing people one already knows closer together in a communication network, it is still lacking in a geographical sense. How well, for example, do you know the other residents in your own neighborhood, and how well are you keeping up with events that are going on there? I'm not talking about gossip, but rather things like crimes such as burglaries or vandalism, social events, helping people in various states of crisis or emergency, lost and found pets, advertisements for services like lawn care or handiwork, things wanted to buy or sell, unrestrained dogs, and so on. A few weeks ago a friend pointed me to a site called NextDoor.com that specifically works to establish communication networks within residential neighborhoods. Free to join, NextDoor members can choose to become actively engaged in interaction through posts with neighbors on the site or can, like me, sit back and read others' postings to see what's going on in my subdivision. Because people tend to emphasize their privacy within neighborhoods and many assert their right to rule their own "castles" aloof from others living around them, the general sense of community in a geographical zone between residents is tenuous and the communication is usually much more formal on NextDoor.com than it is on Facebook, which typically features folks being more themselves and relaxed...even silly...after all, the "Facers" are among those they are familiar with. Besides, we're not quite sure exactly who some of these neighbors of ours really are, are we...
So with NextDoor and its current serious, down-to-business, minimalist tone, I'm not inclined to be posting links to any blog articles of mine in the near future as I do on Facebook. I also have a Twitter account, though, and think that this may be a way to go in the other direction and promote my blog more nationally...and internationally among people at-large, not just among my own circle of family, friends, and associates. Do you have a Twitter account...if you do, do you post on it or, like me, just follow others?
Although Facebook does the service of bringing people one already knows closer together in a communication network, it is still lacking in a geographical sense. How well, for example, do you know the other residents in your own neighborhood, and how well are you keeping up with events that are going on there? I'm not talking about gossip, but rather things like crimes such as burglaries or vandalism, social events, helping people in various states of crisis or emergency, lost and found pets, advertisements for services like lawn care or handiwork, things wanted to buy or sell, unrestrained dogs, and so on. A few weeks ago a friend pointed me to a site called NextDoor.com that specifically works to establish communication networks within residential neighborhoods. Free to join, NextDoor members can choose to become actively engaged in interaction through posts with neighbors on the site or can, like me, sit back and read others' postings to see what's going on in my subdivision. Because people tend to emphasize their privacy within neighborhoods and many assert their right to rule their own "castles" aloof from others living around them, the general sense of community in a geographical zone between residents is tenuous and the communication is usually much more formal on NextDoor.com than it is on Facebook, which typically features folks being more themselves and relaxed...even silly...after all, the "Facers" are among those they are familiar with. Besides, we're not quite sure exactly who some of these neighbors of ours really are, are we...
So with NextDoor and its current serious, down-to-business, minimalist tone, I'm not inclined to be posting links to any blog articles of mine in the near future as I do on Facebook. I also have a Twitter account, though, and think that this may be a way to go in the other direction and promote my blog more nationally...and internationally among people at-large, not just among my own circle of family, friends, and associates. Do you have a Twitter account...if you do, do you post on it or, like me, just follow others?
Tuesday, November 1, 2016
My October 2016 Running Report
As reported yesterday, I tried on the last day of October to run for 10 miles, but stopped after 3.5 when my sore throat got too dry and I was having coughing fits. Still, I also had solid 8 and 6.2-mile runs last month, and continue to feel encouraged about my running. In October I ran for a total of 126 miles and missed running only one day out of the month. But I think, especially when attempting longer runs, that taking more breaks in the future would be prudent for my recovery...
I'm looking forward to November and the cooler weather it should bring to northern Florida. From Wednesday through Saturday this week I doubt I'll be running much since I'll be traveling through Georgia with Melissa, but afterward should start getting back on track with my training. I'm not sure whether I'll get a half-marathon in during the calendar year 2016 as I had hoped, but still may run in some local, shorter races...that Thanksgiving day Turkey Trot 10K race at the Tacachale center off Waldo Road would be a good one...I've already run it a couple of times in the past. And, of course, there's always December to try to squeeze in a half-marathon if I feel I'm ready by then...
I'm looking forward to November and the cooler weather it should bring to northern Florida. From Wednesday through Saturday this week I doubt I'll be running much since I'll be traveling through Georgia with Melissa, but afterward should start getting back on track with my training. I'm not sure whether I'll get a half-marathon in during the calendar year 2016 as I had hoped, but still may run in some local, shorter races...that Thanksgiving day Turkey Trot 10K race at the Tacachale center off Waldo Road would be a good one...I've already run it a couple of times in the past. And, of course, there's always December to try to squeeze in a half-marathon if I feel I'm ready by then...
Monday, October 31, 2016
My Vacation Effectively Begins Today
Although my week off from work technically began at midnight Friday night when I finished my shift, Saturday and Sunday were off-days anyway, so I haven't yet been feeling like I'm on vacation...until now that is. Normally, I would be going to work right now, so being off instead is a sweet, sweet feeling. In a couple of days Melissa and I will be traveling to northern Georgia to enjoy the sights, fall season, and hiking. Today and tomorrow are "home" days, which I also greatly savor. I had planned to try running for ten miles, but early on my lower throat, which is a little sore, got too dry and I was coughing too heavily, curtailing the run after 3.5 miles. I'll either try again tomorrow or wait until after Georgia to go on another long run. In the meantime, I went to AAA and picked up some trip information and maps, after which I stopped off at the Starbucks on NW 13th Street (US 441) and 16th Avenue. I hadn't been there in a while, mainly because I'd previously experienced a string of frustrating failures at finding parking spots there. Today, however, I pulled right on into an empty slot and walked in, planning to sit at the long red counter facing the window. But lo and behold, the counter was gone and the place's entire seating was changed...I opted instead to sit at a long, library-style table where I am right now, writing this. And now I think I'll first take a little time to study some foreign languages, temporarily memorizing sentences in Chinese, German, Spanish, and Russian and then writing them out as I do on a daily basis, and then read a bit...I'm currently in the middle of a Ruth Rendell Inspector Wexford mystery novel and just starting a James Patterson Women's Murder Club book...
Sunday, October 30, 2016
Social Visit and Sports Watching
Late this afternoon, Melissa and I attended a get-together in rural southwestern Alachua County celebrating the successful adoption of two little boys, brothers, into one of our church's families. The location was way out in the country, the landscape dominated by vast cow pastures and wetlands. Just outside the lodge where our party was being held is a pretty wetlands area...look at the picture. Didn't see any gators, though...
And right now I'm toggling back and forth on my television between the World Series and the Major League Soccer playoffs...see the other two pics. So far game number five between the Indians and Cubs has been close and exciting...if Chicago can't hang on (they're currently leading 3-2 in the bottom of the 7th inning in Wrigley Field), Cleveland will close out the series 4 games to 1 and continue the "Curse of the Billy Goat" for the Cubs, who haven't won a World Series since 1908. Meanwhile, I've been watching the divisional semifinal round in the soccer playoffs: right now it's the Seattle Sounders playing at home against Dallas. Well, those are the two major sports I'm following right now...as I've mentioned before, I'm boycotting the "Anti-American" Football League (see link: [link])...
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