I think we all need a little break at appropriate times in the middle of our often hectic, demanding, and stressful days. Knowing that we'll have a time at the end of each day to rest and sleep some may not be enough: not only are midday short naps a good idea (if feasible) but it's good to just take a break from whatever you are doing by engaging in things like simply sitting still, taking a short walk, or reading a book. And then jumping back into the "fray". But all too often, as I look back on my life and old habits, I have had a tendency to reach a point when I felt like just crashing and withdrawing from everything instead of taking things in stride and taking reasonable breaks. Now when I was at work on my job, I had enough self-discipline and a work ethic to plow on through the shift in spite of my feelings. But once off from work, I tended to crash...plop down in front of the TV, get loaded up on food, and vegetate for hours on end. That's not healthy.
I think that excessive alcohol use, as well as drug abuse, are symptoms of crashing, where the user is hiding from his or her often difficult life behind chemically mind-altering substances. But you don't have to be on anything to "crash", or even to become an inveterate couch potato. Crashing is a negative, unhealthy state of mind which presumes that one is "entitled" to give up on the world as a passive-aggressive form of response. I know all of this, yet the temptation is always there for me to withdraw into a more comfortable environment, removed from demands for me to be responsible for my own life and address problems which are sometimes troublesome but which need to be resolved...
Thursday, October 24, 2013
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