The article below is a reprint from what I wrote on December 21, 2018. It features American poet Ralph Waldo Emerson's view on what constitutes a truly great accomplishment. This goes out to all the people out there...primarily men in my experience...who are obsessed with their positions on imaginary social pecking orders, constantly trying to show how accomplished they are with their degrees and positions and wealth and businesses, and who get enraged because it's obvious that I don't give a damn about their delusions. On the other hand, Mr. Self-Important Dude, if feeling superior to me is what makes you feel adequate enough to go on living, I'm not here to change your mind: believe whatever you want to believe...
To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. ---Ralph Waldo Emerson
Ralph Waldo Emerson was a famous nineteenth century American philosopher and poet who championed the ideal of individualism. For someone as myself who generally conforms to society's standards for conduct without complaint, I nevertheless also find myself continually put under pressure by others to speak and make decisions that conform with their agendas for me and not how I would act according to my own values and purposes. I recognize that with each of us there is necessarily a tug of war going on between how we want to individually live our lives and how others want us to live out our sole chance at life on Earth...unless of course they happen to believe in reincarnation. My philosophy has always been to respect the personal decisions of people around me concerning their own lives as long as they do not trample on the rights of others or mine. But there are some people in this world, sad to say, who are incapable of leaving well enough alone and who seem to regard me as some kind of project...or worse an object...that they are entitled to hound and pressure into conforming to what they deem to be "good enough". They are incapable of processing my expressed respect of them as being anything other than a sign of my own weakness, which they are only to eager to exploit. But that's the world for you...only problem is that some folks, especially the real religious ones, who claim to be not conforming to this world, are actually some of the most worldly in this regard. To associate with them entails never quite being accepted for oneself...there's always something else I have to do to gain their "approval". Only one problem: I couldn't care less...and never did...whether they approve of me or not, and I never will, seeing them for what they are...