Nix the Regret, Take Responsibility for the Present

I think one of the biggest delusions that some people hold onto in their lives is that their opportunities have passed them by.  Often people will look back on their adolescent and early adult years and harp with intense regret on decisions they made then that they now believe cut them off forever from attaining their dreams, especially in the area of careers.  But in truth, opportunities abound throughout one's lifetime for returning to those dreams; but it does take a personal transformation of a radical nature for many of these to see themselves as empowered and responsible for their own destinies and to behave in a positive and proactive way, rather than with the passive, critical, and reactive mindset that they have deeply become habituated to.

In fact, it makes no difference whether one got it "right" from the beginning, had great early success, or had personal obstacles to their ambitions.  It's a universal characteristic of a viable, individual, sentient being that when things aren't working out the way we want, then we, as personally responsible individuals, have to figure out how to change our situations for the better and then act on them.  Over and over and over again, throughout our lives! And the best time to realize that is RIGHT NOW...